Friday, December 17, 2010

How are they affected?

Children from a divorced couple are generally emotionally disturbed. It might not be seen right away, surely can be seen in the future. A child who was use to see both parents together does not understand why and how one of the parents is not there anymore; especially when he(she) is a small child. According to Scott J. South and Stewart E. Tolnay in their book, "The changing of American Family", “Children feel left out when parents are getting divorce; and this situation leads to instability in emotional contact." 

In addition, these children become very violent and go easily on the road and do drugs because they don’t trust any body. Also, they can be home not on the street, but they can tempt to commit suicide, so the reaction is very diverse depending on one to another. It is very easy to see an outgoing child to switch to ashy one because of divorce. In addition, the school results can show very well how serious children are affected by parent’s separation. In conclusion, divorce has a bad impact on children, it’s disturbed them emotionally and their behavior can change automatically or later on.

Divorce is an act of dissolution, the cease, the break, or the termination of the act of marriage.  The separation of two people causes many damages; consequences are very intense on the concerned adults and kids as well.
The two parties can be disturbed financially, emotionally, physically, and so on…But the situation is awful when kids are involved, because adults cannot control kid’s reaction after the separation, and reactions depend on one kid to another. Kid’s behavior can change due to divorce, they can become aggressive, very shy, or attempt to suicide. Kids are lost when their parents get divorce, because they consider their parents like their role model, and also their emotion are very troubled since they cannot see one party of the people that they love the more on the earth. School results are a good sign of how children can be disturbed. In fact, the separation, or the divorce has a bad impact on children. They are emotionally troubled and the change of their behavior is the good sign to show how serious is the damage

Mwamba Nkulu.

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